Trust

Trust...

We all trust in each other and we believe in each other…. We meet people in our life everyday. Some of them stay with us forever while some just vanish away from your life.. At times it may be the most unexpected person in your life, who will stand by you when you need someone so desperately by your side. While the most expected, will just seem to be nowhere near you. This is how the world revolves around.

It’s pretty much obvious that none of us can stand alone and live in this world. No one can live in isolation. We all need each other for our distinct survival. That’s the same reason which made this world a cruel place to live in. If you take the majority, they come to you to get their job done, once they get it done, they are off. When you are trying to climb up the ladder of success, they pull you down from your leg and get you down and they get up. This is the sad but yet, the ugly truth. I’m not pointing out that each and every person is like this, but in general if you look at the world in a broader view, this is what you can see.

We all have emotions. We all care for our loved ones. We are compelled by our own conscience to trust each other when we get closer and closer. But are we doing the right thing when we start trusting the person next to us? Who knows for what he/she is standing right next to you? This is where people really wish that they had the power to read each others minds. It may sound childish and like a part of a fairy tale movie, but being a human and being covered by emotions, this is what any person who may call themselves the strongest, would wish for, deep down inside.

Even the smallest thing may seem so big, when a hitch in your trust comes up. It’s unavaoidable. Its natural. But being given a life by nature/god is the biggest gift any person can get, and lets not make a hitch in trust, ruin up this wonderful and magical life which has been given to us. Life is a whole big challenge, and all of us are naturally talented to overcome all those problems which comes up infront of us, nomatter what it is, ranging from a Tsunami to being disabled, we all have the courage to stand up. Afterall, what’s the point of living your life if you dont have a challenge to overcome and the satisfaction you gain after you do it? That’s what you really call living your life to the fullest. What I wanna say through all of these is that you should trust in yourself more than anything else. You never know what life has in store for you and you never know how and when it will come up on you and hit you in your back. There are people whom we can trust and who will never break up. But it takes time to figure out who and where they are, and as i have mentioned earlier, it may be the most unexpected person in your life.

We all fall down in our lives at some point and at that point we should learn how to stand up straight on our own. Not with the help of anyone else. We should first start believing in ourselves and start trusting ourselves before trusting anyone else. Then we should start getting up. You may fall over and over again. But nomatter how much you fall you will try to get up. It may be 100 times, it may be 200 times or it may be some uncountable number of times, but despite how many times it is, the more you try the more you succeed. For an example, just imagine a soldier who has lost his legs due to the war. His life has been a misery eversince. But he never gives up hope. He falls. But despite the fact that he falls and knowing that down there he has no help to get up, he never gives up. He uses his hands to get up.

Help is always there for the ones who need it in whichever way it can be. Also despite the fact that this world is a cruel place to live in, exceptions do prevail. Rather than trusting on other people, first you should trust on yourself. That’s when you will find trust in other people. That’s when you will understand what life really is……………